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Parking ...

My location is close to Hayes Street, which is filled with small local shops and eateries.   It's also close to Civic Center, the SF Opera, City Hall, & the Symphony.  When booking appointments keep in mind the time of time.  All of this makes for parking a breeze or a challenge. 

Metered...  the City added one-hour meter parking on Gough St. 

Un-metered...   (2-Hour Limit) parking Page St from Gough Street through to Laguna Street.  Or try anywhere on Octavia St.

Parking Lots...   There are a couple of them near Gough & Golden Gate.

Recently a client told me of an often overlooked parking spot.  Normally streets running north off Market do not also run south.  Gough Street is one of the only ones that also go south of Market.  Go south, passed Market, still on Gough St.  On your left will be the Cafe Trieste.  By the Cafe there are often missed parallel parking spaces. 

Edging...the basis for Edge in the Tantra

The sensation you get when you masturbate without releasing. It lets the the tension build. It gives back control of the orgasm to those men who want to wield fierce orgasms.

Then you masturbate some more - riding on the edge before you ejaculate.  Repeat on the playing with yourself then hold back some more; 'edging' as you get closer each time until the final release. The feeling in the release can be so much more intense than just masturbating and letting loose when you first feel the need.
This is Edging - sometimes called Cum Denial, Milking, Cum Control, Extended Sexual Orgasm (ESO). 

Traditional non-ejaculatory Tantra begins this dance of extended sensual foreplay.  For more intensity I extend the pleasure further.  Using Esalen Massage I 'body'work the front, sides, back, rear of your body. I might pull on your hair, stroke the face, chest, legs and arms. I tease, eroticize, stroke, whack, and whatever else to bring you to release, but deny that pleasure until the proper time.
First and foremost I play safe and continue to experiment. 

Its the journey rather than the destination.
 

Butt Work ...

Hands On Touch technique called "Butt Consciousness" recommended for little or no prior anal experience.
I blend a full body massage with some anal play, giving you less or more anal pleasure depending on you reaction and if you are like to experiment with full intensity - depending on prior experience, I might add toys, lube, fingers, vibrators and perhaps even more to further enhance the awareness of the power & pleasure of the prostate.

My original anal teacher, (the late Chester Mainard, renowned by his followers as the "Avatar of Ass"), taught me that the only way to play with ass was to first open up a dialogue with the ass itself. Do what was needed to make the ass 'beg for more.'

I thought of "Butt Whisperer" as I listen to the needs, but most of all listen to the desires of a man's body.

Depending on the response of the client and his butt, the play can go further in exploration and manipulation. I don't proceed with anal play without consensus from both the client and his butt!   *Let's Make It Clean bois, OK? 

In my anal journeys with the Tantra, I have found many G-Spots located externally and internally. Some men may have no sensation in these locations simply because no one has ever stimulated its pleasures.

I named these G-spot locations the "Portals of Pleasure". When properly awakened with intimate healing touch, the orgasm deepens.

All Butt Play begins with external working of buttocks (kneading, pummeling, stroking, and vibrating). A client must be relaxed in a receptive mood before I will  probe the anal sphincter.

My teachers believed in relaxed orgasms.  Nothing should be rushed or pushed without the body already yielding into deep relaxed sensual contact. The surrounding anal area massaged, from the coccyx to the perineum; Tantrics call this place the Hui Yin.  Then feel deep touch awakening the ball sack, legs, groin areas and up the back to tug on your hair and get your entire naked body into the pleasures and sensations I call Butt Consciousness.

 

 

Things to keep in mind about the session -

Safety First; Hygiene is Prime.

This means nothing inserted without protection (like a glove or condom) and an unclean ass will bring an end to extended anal play

Hey guys, remember if you can't find the time prior to the massage to douche or clean out with an enema, then at the very least take a shower and remember to shove that wash cloth into the crack!. Especially if you recently taken a dump!
Apologies for being blunt but I am the one who has to probe around. Do us both a favor and make it ready for exploration.

While I can offer you a shower, there are no enema or douching facilities here.

Now for some graphic information discovered after years of working boy's butts -
Remember if you take a dump before the massage begins, it can loosen and shift things about. I would prefer all of that loosening be done at least one hour prior to a massage. Then after the loosening and expelling, then its time for a shower down there. 

I understand this might be all new to some guys, so ask if you need more information.  I plan to play with all of you anyway so let me know of things I will find anyway - its the journey I play with.

 

 

Reiki

Rei - Spirit or Universal Life
Ki - Energy

Reiki translates as "Universal Life Energy"

Reiki is from the Japanese words: "Rei" for Spirit or Universal Life and "Ki" for Energy.   Reiki means Universal Life Energy.

Reiki is energy from the universe.   It is naturally around us like the air. It is much like radio waves, which you need a radio to pick up.   The Reiki practitioner then attunes themselves to this specific form of energy through their hands whenever they touch a living being, which brings a state of balance to the recipient.  

Thought to have originated in ancient Japan, Reiki is an ethereal philosophy about the interconnectedness of the energy which exists in the universe. The Reiki Master channels the wise and healing energy from the universe into the body and spirit of a client, to heal physical, emotional, and spiritual injuries.

 

 

What's that mean? ...

body electric massage..."sensual massage intended to promote positive self-image and acceptance of the body, and help to reattach a wholesome view of sexual energy within the body" - from Body Electric teachings.

circuit breaker...technique used in the Tantra to reset overloaded energy circuits that flow through the Meridians. These circuits need to properly aligned in order for the energy to flow properly. The primary circuit breaker occurs when your tongue is connected to the palate on the roof of your mouth.

chi...according to traditional oriental medicine, this is the body's vital life force. Also known as ki in Japan and prana in India.  It was known as 'orgone' to Wilhelm Reich, considered to be the founder of modern Tantra.

ejaculation...releasing seminal fluid out of the body with or without an orgasm; in Taoist Tantra one learns to have multiple orgasms without the ejaculation of bodily fluids.

first light...of Tibetan origin. First Light allows a person to receive powerful energies that shift the perceptions of their being - spiritual, physical, and emotional This energy system is 'interactive' and allows the client and the therapist to connect on a much deeper level in the healing process.

hypnosis..."the use of suggestion, to induce a heightened state of suggestibility" (David Elman). "Hypnosis is an altered state of hypersuggestibility brought about in an individual by the use of a combination of relaxation , fixation of attention and suggestion"

jin shin jyutsu...from the Japanese words: Jin - Knowing/Compassion; Shin - Creator; Jyutsu - Art Translated as "Creator's Art of Knowing Oneself. This is a form of body relaxation therapy to get fully attuned within oneself. The hands do not move on the body as in traditional massage. Most clients report a sense of well-being, alert to their surroundings, but not committed to anything but to feeling deeply relaxed.

master tao teacher...Dr Joseph Kramer...http://www.eroticmassage.com/

palmistry...the practice of telling fortunes from the lines, marks, and patterns on the palms of the hands.  In my sessions, the left palm represents the past while the right palm is the present and future.

psychometry...he ability to read the history of objects or divine the future of the person owning the object which is usually small personal objects such as a watch, ring, key or other personal objects.

rebirthing...or conscious breathing is a system of learning to breath consciously rather than allowing the body to breath on its own pattern. Through learning to breathe consciously a person is able to redirect the energy that arises from the inhale/exhale patterns most never think about or question. Conscious breathing also allow a person to enter altered states of consciousness. Once termed "rebirthing" as it was believed that with such conscious breath work, one could journey back to the moment of their birth and release any trauma stemmed form the birth. However less than 20% actually regress to birth, so the term "Conscious Breathing" is more correct.

toys ...years ago a client said my sessions reminded him that 'boys like toys' - I still giggle as boys for me is any man willing to let me play with him.  Toys for me then is any device other than my hands that I can provide to further enhance the massage experience.  Some of my toys are hand-made. Some store bought & not necessarily for what I use them for.  The rest professionally crafted. Here are a few images.
     aneros  
     crystal wand
     hitachi 'magick wand'
     stud ring
     wahl secondary unit