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Simplify, glorify the Source
Basic principle, down the front, up the back
So it is above, so its is below
There is only one order in the order of the Universe
Each of us is the artist and the creator.
from
Mary Burmeister "What Mary Says"
Jin Shin Jyutsu
Secrets Revealed
Tantra in today's world is often compromised; truncated as
sexual bliss overwhelmed
its full potential. The Tao as it origin was lost as man's quest for God
Almighty mind blowing sex led to 'God Almighty.' The orgasms was life itself
unfolded in internal bliss. A oneness with the Universe!
In Tantra there are 3 Levels of a Male Orgasm.
The ejaculation is the first level
Yikes! Do
you know what that meant?
For most men that meant
they missed out on what an orgasm really felt like
Just as the feeling is getting strong, most men ejaculate. You
get maybe 5 seconds then the body pulls within to prepare for another blast.
Most men get sleepy. Most men require a few minutes (hours, days, weeks)
before they are ready to go again.
Most men think that ejaculation means orgasm. Most men think orgasm means
you get tired after you get off.
In Tantra the orgasm makes you very relaxed yet full of energy.
The orgasm tingles, vibrates and electrifies every cell of your body.
Tantra orgasms have you moaning, writhing, and driving you mad with the power of
life itself, the lust with being alive.
The orgasm can last a few minutes or an hour or more! You dont ejaculate
just yet so your body is ready to have yet another orgasm. The orgasm
multiplies and becomes more than sex itself but the stuff of one's life force.
Some call it chi, or ki, or mana. It naturally flows within
the body and everyone already has some. During sex with Tantra the orgasm
mingles with this internal energy to let you have a 2nd and 3rd level of a Male
Orgasm.
Sounds simple in print yet can take years to perfect. I needed
to find the basics as I was on a mission to "Make the World Orgasmic."
Hands On Touch was founded on this intent.
Make orgasms for the client. Make many of them.
Make them in all the ways that others could like them. Come up with
new ways, new toys, new 'designs & persuasions' as enhancements (giving
Viagra-reactions without the drug). Repeat as often as possible.
Get Creative. Keep people coming back for more.
Then when they reach their limit of pleasure, increase their intensity.
Go for Distance & Quantity!
Then all was ready to reveal the secrets. I needed
to make
it simple so everyone could have more of them. It was time to reveal the
5 Keys. Last year I began revealing three of them as I began every session
with a quick overview.
They were Breath, Lock, and Edge
The basics are the easiest for everyone. Then
put it all together.
Breath
Have you ever put all your attention on what it feels like to take a
full breath of air? the air is cleansing and filling you with energy.
Then hold onto the nest breath. Have an awareness of that
breath in your lungs for a few moments. Savor that moment before your
lungs expel the air. Have you ever put your attention to what it feels
like to exhale? The breath is leaving the body. As it is
expelled it takes toxins out of your system. All of this is automatic.
In this world we have little time to stop and consciously breath.
The Tantrics speak of us as 'shallow breather.' We only
take in as much air as we need as quickly as possible. Over time we lose
its full potential (and one of the 5 Secrets to a fantastic Orgasm!).
For this moment take in a full breath. Feel the shoulders
expand and the belly swell up. For Tantrics that full (fat) belly look is
hot! Never tuck your belly in when you inhale! Feel that belly swell
up with that breath of air. Then fully exhale; releasing every wind of air
from your lungs. Repeat three times with a full breath. Then pause
and resume normal breathing. Can you feel the difference?
For now no worries on how you are breathing. Some spend
lifetimes perfecting the skill of Conscious Breathing. For now, all I ask
is for just this moment of your life to stop right now and be conscious of your
breathing. For now, just be aware.
Breath is the first secret .
Lock
Most guys can get some of what I am ranting on about if they try
out the breathing example (see above). Most feel a difference in their
body even after three deep breaths. However the next key is the one that gets a bit more esoteric with some
Yoga and Kundalini references. If you are aware of the Kundalini &
the Chakras, maybe you have also heard of Meridians and energy centers.
If you never heard of this stuff then this will be very confusing. Check
out "What's that Mean?" for more information. [email me if needed]
Some centers store energy (for example in Tantra, rubbing in a circular fashion the region
around the belly button - the 3rd Chakra - stores sexual energy so you have more to feel later on).
Some centers are used to regulate the flow of power. (for example the
region between your nipples - the 4th Chakra - the heart center for giving &
receiving love). Orgasms can make all your energy centers glow with power.
Too much power though can blow the fuse!
Remember orgasms are
intense and in Tantra we want that power tenfold but only when we can handle it.
In Tantra there are several 'locks' to bind the energy in safe
patterns. Once locked in place, you can safely go as far as you can handle
in orgasmic bliss. Without the locks in place, the energy never gets to
where it needs to travel. Have you ever felt really tired after sex?
Maybe even getting a headache?
The first lock is with the tongue. Place the tip of the
tongue to the roof of the mouth. This allows an even flow of energy to pass
freely thru all parts of the body. As the energy flows it takes with it
the orgasm. From this secret you will feel orgasm in your toes, fingers.
For example your body might shake, your hair stands on end - orgasms to make
every part of your body feel alive!
Locks that unlock
Edge
One learns to make love by first making love to oneself.
Practice often with yourself. Jerk around with a circle of
friends.
Then take what you learn back to your bed. Play and make love to the best man
you got = you!
The secret to the Edge is in finding the single solitary moment before your
body automatically expels liquid and offers its passing moment of a usual orgasm.
The key to a full orgasm is the Edge; keeping yourself at that
moment before the release. Once you become the Master of this moment, the Edge
makes possible hour long orgasms and much more.
Edge of Completion
Masturbation can
be good...for those over 50
Put it All
Together
Breathe
Just be aware how you breathe normally. Be aware as you inhale & when you exhale. Do you notice how each breath is different?
Lock Find a place on the palate or roof of the
mouth where you can lightly place the tip of the tongue. For most people its
dead center. For me, I feel for the small groove to the right or left of
center. For some its behind the teeth. Find your place.
Edge Hey we want orgasms, so Jack off as much
as you like. Then when you are ready the next time you jack off, hold on
for just a moment before you release.
When you want to go a bit further
Edge to that moment when one more stroke will tip the balance and
make for a sticky mess and a moment of pleasure. Edging and savoring to
that pinnacle, then Breathe and as you hold back the release, hold
the breath. Lock by placing the tip of the
tongue to the roof of your mouth. Hold that moment while the tension of
the orgasm releases from immediate. Keep the tongue Lock in
place, but let go of the breath. Begin again, jack some more. See
how close you can take it before you release. Practice until you discover your
own secrets to taking it to the Edge.
Don't make things complicated. Keep it simple.
We began with the Breath
- Remember that the
secret was
that the breath fuels the multiple orgasm
We continued with the Lock
- The secret was that the tongue lock
unlocks an orgasm
so that it is felt in the
entire body
We came to perfection with the Edge
- the secret is that this is that simple
keep it going - it builds over time into a wave of
bliss
Love to get my hands on you to show you what I mean.
If you are in the City, call - let's find a way to have you over for the
healing. If you dont live nearby, then let me guide you with all the
details.
go & make orgasms
Email
If you desire an immediate consultation
or if you emailed and did not get a quick response,
then please
call 415 - 255 - 1164 PST to speak with me directly
I usually check email in the
early morning - before 10 am
sacred-touch@hotmail.com
"Making the World Orgasmic
In the Gods' Embrace"
Ah, but what does orgasm mean to you?
For the common folk it's
often a quick ejaculatory release.
Hands On
Touch has higher aspirations
Of the Tantra
Of awakened
multiple and
full-bodied sensory awareness
Of orgasm transformed into something sacred.
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Hands On Touch for the
orgasmic
in all of us.
When I began learning massage my teacher said that 'all touch was
sacred'.
Those words carried with me as I explored origins to erotic sacred touch.
Being
of the Wicca my explorations led first to the myths of ancient Greek, Roman and Egyptian writings. Here they held
their bodyworkers in high esteem; they were emissaries to their Gods.
Remembered in legends as
'the Holy Ones,'
'Erotic Choreographers,' and 'the Keepers of the
Flame', these Temple Priests channeled the presence, energy, power, love,
and the ecstasy of
the Gods through their bodies.
Today those teaching would take on names such as Reiki, Tantra, Kundalini, Sex
Magick
and Sexual
Healing.
My training then continued while offering massage freely for the feedback,
while also working with native shamans and healers from around the world.
My early training was with such Masters of the Erotic as Body Electric,
Joe Kramer,
Chester Mainard, and
Mantak Chia.
I explored what clients said they wanted. I became intrigued with
'happy endings.' From there I discovered what the clients really
needed.
These days my orgasmic techniques
arrive with each session.
Hands On Touch, a sacred touch as one person connects to another.
"May the hands of the Divine Lover caress you into bliss."
ancient Egyptian blessing
'More than Just a Massage' as all sessions are meant to be a powerful healing
experience to
provide
therapeutic
bodywork with intentional focused eroticism.
All sessions begin with the breath.
Breath connects us all
in orgasmic bliss.
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Summer 2009 Hours
for New Clients: 10am - 3pm
for Returning clients: 10am - 6pm
Hands On Touch
Located in San Francisco - Hayes Valley
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R eturning
clients
R U a 'Regular'
* ?
For me this
means you had three or more sessions in the last calendar
year
This latest offer is good for only one
per customer per calendar year.
one free session
(maximum 1 hour)
You can use this for yourself or give it to someone else
As a regular client you also qualify for
the specially
priced quick
session
* Note:
- I must be able to verify previous sessions
- Other special (barter/discount) arrangements welcomed
Quickie
30 - 45 Minute Massage
= $30
This is a 'special feature' bodywork,
lasting less than 45 minutes. As a result of this
shortened time it is limited
in what can be accomplished. Keep in mind that time is very limited and I want to insure a relaxing
experience.
This massage was
originally designed by a regular client who only had a lunch hour to drop by for a
massage. He wanted a quickie session so that he could enjoy it all and still
have time to eat lunch, shower and get back to work.
Shower with fresh towels is available when you arrive as
well as to get you are ready to go back to leave.
Over 55 ? *
I love the touch of your years and the response of your glory.
My aim was that the older you were the less
expensive the session. I am still working out the details.
for men 55-65: Take $10 off these sessions already on sale:
60 min $ 50
90 min $ 65
for men 65 and over: Take $15 off these sessions already on sale:
60 min $ 45
90 min $ 60
You must mention the web as the discounts are not offered to everyone
* Note:
- Please have proof of age
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Please mention discounts when
booking your appointment
HONORED TEACHERS
pardons this section still under construction
Chester Mainard
passed on 3/13/07

his webpage
One of the original teachers of Body Electric School of massage,
Chester was best known as the "Avatar of Ass." He originated the
techniques I practice in my sessions. His work directly influenced me as I
created my "Butto Consciousness" techniques with his teachings in mind.
Google "Rosebud Massage" or "Exploring the Land Down Under" for examples of his
DVD instruction tapes.
Chester aka Dragonfly was my friend for many years before I
even trained with Body Electric.
Chester left this world on March 13, 2007 however Chester
never leaves my side as I prepare another clients for the 'journey down under.'
More later ... .
MANTAK CHIA
Mantak Chia (Healing
Tao) made me aware of the Tantra's sexual
side, as well as it's modern day same-sex interpretation.
In
a series of workshops Mantak Chia connected the non-sexual breathing/chanting
work and the Middle Pillar
meditations with his system called the Microcosmic Orbit which resulted in a
more dynamic form of the Tantra I utilize today. His system however had
the student originate the energy not at the anus as I had been doing, but from
the solar plexus. It then circulated down to the genitals, up the back,
and down the body, back to the solar plexus. There will be more
discussion of this in the future Tantra lessons such as those in my private
teaching of Sex Magik.
"Magik" is deliberately spelt this way to
separate it from usual stage magic shows using smoke & mirror tricks.
Tantric Sex is magik in its purest from.
The Tantric Master Chia's
system dynamically
stirred energy up from
the base of the spine (at the Hui Yin, located just under the testicles) and
sends the energy through the center of the body awakening ancient sensual and erotic forces that once unleashed provide tremendous energy and sexual power.
Most of the work I currently share with clients utilizes
sections of this power system.
However, at the time
I was working with
Mantak Chia, (in the 1980's), his philosophies became contrary to
mine. He was of the mistaken belief that only through Male/Female sex could one
practice the Tantra (he is of traditional Thai/Chinese beliefs). When I admitted I was gay, it ended my
training with him as he believed that gay men could not do this type of work -
his belief was the Tantric could potentially destroy a person's energy if they
only worked with their own sex.
I always believed he was entitled to his
opinion no matter how wrong it was. I
decided to continue with the best of his teachings blending it with other
techniques I found
along the way.
Time changes many things and so I repeat a story I heard from a
Healing Tao teacher:
A Grand Master Healing Tao
session was called gathering all teachers together. The Master Chia was there
to honor his established teachers. Several of them
publicly came out as gay. Mantak Chia was shocked as he learned not only
did these gay men fully utilized the techniques with only men as their
partners, but actually were more vital and energized with homosex. These
men also introduced new techniques even his original teacher didn't know. So I guess
an old
teacher can learn new tricks!
In my personal opinion ALL of Mantak Chia's
books are treasured gems. While I agree that some of his writings
are a bit 'hard' to understand, there are many magnificent teachings of the
Tantra presented. Remember just as gender is really not an important
aspect so much as the connection made when love-making begins, so too the
writings of Mantak Chia (while in his early writings were) homophobic are not
so much an issue as is the teachings he so generously made available to his
students.
JOE KRAMER
I progressed as far
as I could go until I was introduced to the works of Joe
Kramer and the
Body Electric School. There I learned of additional male Tantra exercises,
how to do both erotic and non-erotic bodywork/massage,
breathing patterns and the ability of gay men to work fully with the Tantra.
Dr Kramer (he got his PhD for his Thesis on the Erotic) has been one of my
mentors as I admired his business etiquette. He created BODY ELECTRIC
school of Massage & Rebirthing to share these techniques to the world.
He learned the quickies that would take 40 men over 2 days time to become
multi-orgasmic.
He once told me it was his pleasure to be able to teach men in this
fashion...until the VHS/DVD boom and he found that instead of teaching 40 men
at a time, he could reach thousands of men,
Be sure to check him out as he now is into streaming videos as well as getting
your college degree in the Erotic.
The Breath connects us all
"Our breath is constantly rising
and falling, ebbing and flowing, entering and leaving our bodies. Full body
breathing is an extraordinary symphony of both powerful and subtle movements
that massage our internal organs, oscillate our joints, and alternately tone and
release all the muscles in the body. It is a full participation with life.
"The fundamental nature of the breath is that, like life, it is
constantly changing. The breath oscillates. It rocks us to and fro, fills and empties us, expands and condenses. One of the easiest ways to begin to
perceive this natural flow of the breath is to learn to recognize the basic
movements in the body that are present during breathing. Movement tells you
where the breath is moving...and where it is not. Recognizing these movements is
the first step in getting to know your breath."
from
The Breathing Book by Donna Farhi
Locks that Unlock
There are many different types of 'lock' in the energy systems
in the Hands On Touch sessions.
Locking means to safely contain the energy; to harness its full
potential. In this fast-paced world many want the quick and easy path to fuller
pleasures. Suggesting 'control' and 'safely contain' are thought of as too
many rules with outdated restrictions.
Think of it this way -
You bought a lamp. You unpacked the lamp screwed
in a light bulb and turned it on. Nothing happened until you realized that
one rule was you needed to plug in the cord to a (working) light socket.
If all goes well, you will do this and the light will go on. This is the
path I want to achieve with you - success, once everything is properly set
in place.
Without 'safety' locks the scene might be this -
You bought a lamp. You didnt bother unpacking it.
You cut a hole to inset the light bulb and screwed it in, and plugged in
the cord to a light socket. Since the lamp wasnt fully unpacked you never
noticed that the power cord wasnt connected to the lamp. The cord must
have been sliced when you tried to open the box. If all goes well there will be
a loud noise, a bit of smoke and your fuses will blow out. If it doesnt go
well...
Safety Energy Lock #3
from "Touch of Healing" by Alice Burmeister
I am of the Practioner level with a form of Japanese acupressure called
Jin Shin
Jyutsu. It's philosophy is about self-healing with the use
of hands placed on the body. Its a very gentle, subtle and powerful
healing modality. If I see a discordant energy pattern in my client, I
often use one of their "flows." I always inform the client as the locks
used will often quicken the energy release. Often in unexpected ways.
Often will long lasting results. Here is an example of one of the Safety Locks.
This one boosts the Immune System as it release a natural antibiotic. It
also aids in breathing. It treats colds and sore throats.
"The acupressure point is located on your upper back, by the
inside and upper corners of the shoulder blade. to the left and right side of
the spine. This lock functions like a 'door' swinging forth to unload
tension then swinging back to receive purified energy. "
1. Place your left hand on your right shoulder. The
side of your thumb resting at the base of the neck. The fingers naturally
curl to the location and cling as you rest your elbow on your chest.
2. Place your right hand on your left shoulder. The
side of your thumb resting at the base of the neck. The fingers naturally
curl to the location and cling as you rest your elbow on your chest.
3. Hold there for a few minutes. See how it feels.
If possible hold for up to 15 minutes at a time. As often as it
feels good.
Edge of
Completion
Edging is that sensation you get when you masturbate without releasing.
It lets the the tension build. It gives back control of the orgasm to those
men who want to wield fierce orgasms.
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Butt Consciousness
Butt Consciousness was created so that people with
little or no prior anal massage would enjoy the bodywork.
I blended a full body massage with
some anal play, giving you less or more anal pleasure depending on you
reaction and if you are
like to experiment with full intensity - depending on prior experience, I
might add toys, lube,
fingers, vibrators and perhaps even more to further enhance the awareness of
the power & pleasure of the prostate.
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http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-wellbeing/health-news/masturbation-can-be-good-for-the-over50s-1516792.html
Removal of toxins built up over a lifetime reduces
the risk of prostate cancer
By Jeremy Laurance, Health Editor
Tuesday, 27 January 2009
Masturbation may be good for you or bad, depending on your age. The
solitary sexual activity that is widely practiced but little discussed, is
linked with an increased risk of prostate cancer when practiced frequently
by young men in their twenties and thirties, doctors say.
But by the time men reach their fifties, it may protect against the
disease because it helps remove toxins that have built up over a lifetime.
Prostate cancer is known to be driven by the male hormone testosterone,
and men with high levels of testosterone tend to have a higher sex drive and
a higher risk of the cancer.
But most research has examined older men because prostate cancer is
unusual under 50. Researchers at the University of Nottingham studied the
link between sexual activity in younger men and the disease to see if it
affected their long-term risk. More than 400 men with prostate cancer
diagnosed before the age of 60 were questioned about their sexual habits
over the preceding decades and the results compared with 400 controls.
The findings showed that those who had been most sexually active in their
twenties having sexual intercourse or masturbating more than 20 times a
month were more likely to have the cancer. Frequent masturbation, but not
sexual intercourse, in the twenties and thirties was significantly linked
with the later development of prostate cancer.
In their 50s men who were most sexually active (more than 10 times a
month for sexual intercourse and masturbation combined) enjoyed a small
protective effect. The effect was greater when masturbation was assessed on
its own.
Polyxeni Dimitripolou, who led the study published in the British Journal
of Urology International, said: "It seems as if keeping up a certain level
of sexual activity through the decades is better than having a high level
early [in the 20s and 30s] and then nothing."
"One theory is that during the early years the prostate gland is more
susceptible to hormonal changes and is still developing. As men age and
accumulate toxins from the diet or through their lungs , sexual activity may
help release them. Studies have found toxins in the semen and the fluid
produced in the prostate. As you age it is more important to flush them
out."
However, she admitted that there was no good explanation of why
masturbation should have a greater impact on prostate cancer, either by
increasing or reducing the risk, than sexual intercourse.
"For our sample there was no association with intercourse all the
effect was coming from masturbation. But it may have to do with our group of
men. With a different group there could be different findings."
She added: "What makes our study stand out from previous research is that
we focused on a younger age group than normal and included both intercourse
and masturbation at various stages in people's lives."
"A possible explanation for the protective effect
that men in their fifties appear to receive from overall sexual activity,
and particularly masturbation, is that the release of accumulated toxins
during sexual activity reduces the risk of developing cancer in the prostate
area. This theory has, however, not been firmly established and further
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