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“ We are here to simplify
Simplify, glorify the Source
Basic principle, down the front, up the back
So it is above, so its is below
There is only one order in the order of the Universe
Each of us is the artist and the creator.”
from Mary Burmeister "What Mary Says" Jin Shin Jyutsu

 

 

 

 

Secrets Revealed 

Tantra in today's world is often compromised; truncated as sexual bliss overwhelmed its full potential.  The Tao as it origin was lost as man's quest for God Almighty mind blowing sex led to 'God Almighty.' The orgasms was life itself unfolded in internal bliss.  A oneness with the Universe!

In Tantra there are 3 Levels of a Male Orgasm. 
    The ejaculation is the first level              Yikes! Do you know what that meant? 
          For most men that meant they missed out on what an orgasm really felt like

Just as the feeling is getting strong, most men ejaculate. You get maybe 5 seconds then the body pulls within to prepare for another blast.  Most men get sleepy.  Most men require a few minutes (hours, days, weeks) before they are ready to go again.   Most men think that ejaculation means orgasm. Most men think orgasm means you get tired after you get off. 

In Tantra the orgasm makes you very relaxed yet full of energy.  The orgasm tingles, vibrates and electrifies every cell of your body.  Tantra orgasms have you moaning, writhing, and driving you mad with the power of life itself, the lust with being alive.
The orgasm can last a few minutes or an hour or more!  You dont ejaculate just yet  so your body is ready to have yet another orgasm. The orgasm multiplies and becomes more than sex itself but the stuff of one's life force.  Some call it chi, or ki, or mana. It naturally flows within the body and everyone already has some.  During sex with Tantra the orgasm mingles with this internal energy to let you have a 2nd and 3rd level of a Male Orgasm. 

Sounds simple in print yet can take years to perfect. I needed to find the basics as I was on a mission to "Make the World Orgasmic."

Hands On Touch was founded on this intent. 

Make orgasms for the client.   Make many of them.   Make them in all the ways that others could like them.   Come up with new ways, new toys, new 'designs & persuasions' as enhancements (giving Viagra-reactions without the drug).   Repeat as often as possible.   Get Creative.   Keep people coming back for more.    Then when they reach their limit of pleasure,  increase their intensity. 

Go for Distance & Quantity! 

Then all was ready to reveal the secrets.   I needed to make it simple so everyone could have more of them.  It was time to reveal the 5 Keys.  Last year I began revealing three of them as I began every session with a quick overview. 

They were Breath, Lock, and Edge

The basics are the easiest for everyone.  Then put it all together

Breath 
  
 Have you ever put all your attention on what it feels like to take a full breath of air?  the air is cleansing and filling you with energy.  Then hold onto the nest breath.  Have an awareness of that breath in your lungs for a few moments.  Savor that moment before your lungs expel the air.  Have you ever put your attention to what it feels like to exhale?   The breath is leaving the body.  As it is expelled it takes toxins out of your system.  All of this is automatic.  In this world we have little time to stop and consciously breath. 
    The Tantrics speak of us as 'shallow breather.'  We only take in as much air as we need as quickly as possible.  Over time we lose its full potential (and one of the 5 Secrets to a fantastic Orgasm!).

For this moment take in a full breath.  Feel the shoulders expand and the belly swell up.  For Tantrics that full (fat) belly look is hot!  Never tuck your belly in when you inhale!  Feel that belly swell up with that breath of air.  Then fully exhale; releasing every wind of air from your lungs.  Repeat three times with a full breath.  Then pause and resume normal breathing.  Can you feel the difference?

    For now no worries on how you are breathing.  Some spend lifetimes perfecting the skill of Conscious Breathing.  For now, all I ask is for just this moment of your life to stop right now and be conscious of your breathing.  For now, just be aware. 

Breath is the first secret.

Lock
   Most guys can get some of what I am ranting on about if they try out the breathing example (see above).  Most feel a difference in their body even after three deep breaths.   However the next key is the one that gets a bit more esoteric with some Yoga and Kundalini references.   If you are aware of the Kundalini & the Chakras, maybe you have also heard of Meridians and energy centers.  If you never heard of this stuff then this will be very confusing.  Check out "What's that Mean?" for more information.  [email me if needed]

Some centers store energy (for example in Tantra, rubbing in a circular fashion the region around the belly button - the 3rd Chakra - stores sexual energy so you have more to feel later on). Some centers are used to regulate the flow of power.  (for example the region between your nipples - the 4th Chakra - the heart center for giving & receiving love).  Orgasms can make all your energy centers glow with power.  Too much power though can blow the fuse! 

Remember orgasms are intense and in Tantra we want that power tenfold but only when we can handle it.

In Tantra there are several 'locks' to bind the energy in safe patterns.  Once locked in place, you can safely go as far as you can handle in orgasmic bliss.  Without the locks in place, the energy never gets to where it needs to travel.  Have you ever felt really tired after sex?  Maybe even getting a headache? 

The first lock is with the tongue.  Place the tip of the tongue to the roof of the mouth. This allows an even flow of energy to pass freely thru all parts of the body.  As the energy flows it takes with it the orgasm.  From this secret you will feel orgasm in your toes, fingers.  For example your body might shake, your hair stands on end - orgasms to make every part of your body feel alive!

Locks that unlock

Edge
   One learns to make love by first making love to oneself. 

Practice often with yourself.  Jerk around with a circle of friends. 
Then take what you learn back to your bed. Play and make love to the best man you got = you!

The secret to the Edge is in finding the single solitary moment before your body automatically expels liquid and offers its passing moment of a usual orgasm. 

The key to a full orgasm is the Edge; keeping yourself at that moment before the release. Once you become the Master of this moment, the Edge makes possible hour long orgasms and much more. 

Edge of Completion
Masturbation can be good...for those over 50

 

Put it All Together

 Breathe
 Just be aware how you breathe normally.  Be aware as you inhale & when you exhale.  Do you notice how each breath is different?  

Lock Find a place on the palate or roof of the mouth where you can lightly place the tip of the tongue. For most people its dead center.  For me, I feel for the small groove to the right or left of center.  For some its behind the teeth.  Find your place.

Edge Hey we want orgasms, so Jack off as much as you like.  Then when you are ready the next time you jack off, hold on for just a moment before you release.

When you want to go a bit further
Edge to that moment when one more stroke will tip the balance and make for a sticky mess and a moment of pleasure.  Edging and savoring to that pinnacle, then Breathe and as you hold back the release, hold the breath.   Lock by placing the tip of the tongue to the roof of your mouth.  Hold that moment while the tension of the orgasm releases from immediate.  Keep the tongue Lock in place, but let go of the breath.  Begin again, jack some more.  See how close you can take it before you release. Practice until you discover your own secrets to taking it to the Edge.

Don't make things complicated. Keep it simple. 

We began with the Breath
    - Remember that the secret was
      that the breath fuels the multiple orgasm

We continued with the Lock
    - The secret was that the tongue lock
       unlocks an orgasm so that it is felt in the entire body

We came to perfection with the Edge
    - the secret is that this is that simple
      keep it going - it builds over time into a wave of bliss

Love to get my hands on you to show you what I mean.

If you are in the City, call - let's find a way to have you over for the healing.  If you dont live nearby, then let me guide you with all the details. 

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If you desire an immediate consultation
    or if you emailed and did not get a quick response, then please
call 415 - 255 - 1164  PST to speak with me directly

I usually check email in the early morning - before 10 am

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"Making the World Orgasmic In the Gods' Embrace"

Ah, but what does orgasm mean to you? 
For the common folk it's
often a quick ejaculatory release.

Hands On Touch has higher aspirations
Of the Tantra
Of awakened
multiple and full-bodied sensory awareness
Of orgasm transformed into something sacred. 

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Hands On Touch for the orgasmic in all of us.

When I began learning massage my teacher said that 'all touch was sacred'. Those words carried with me as I explored origins to erotic sacred touch. 

Being of the Wicca my explorations led first to the myths of ancient Greek, Roman and Egyptian writings.  Here they held their bodyworkers in high esteem; they were emissaries to their Gods.  Remembered in legends as 'the Holy Ones,' 'Erotic Choreographers,' and 'the Keepers of the Flame', these Temple Priests channeled the presence, energy, power, love, and the ecstasy of the Gods through their bodies.  Today those teaching would take on names such as Reiki, Tantra, Kundalini, Sex Magick and Sexual Healing.

My training then continued while offering massage freely for the feedback, while also working with native shamans and healers from around the world.  My early training was with such Masters of the Erotic as Body Electric, Joe Kramer, Chester Mainard, and Mantak Chia

I explored what clients said they wanted.  I became intrigued with 'happy endings.'  From there I discovered what the clients really needed. These days my orgasmic techniques arrive with each session. 

Hands On Touch, a sacred touch as one person connects to another.

"May the hands of the Divine Lover caress you into bliss."  
ancient Egyptian blessing

'More than Just a Massage' as all sessions are meant to be a powerful healing experience to provide therapeutic bodywork with intentional focused eroticism.

All sessions begin with the breath.  Breath connects us all in orgasmic bliss. 

suggested reading    |    Secrets Revealed

 

 

 

Keeping prices low so you can keep coming!

returning client discounts   |   specials for 55+ 

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60  Minutes     $ 60
90  Minutes     $ 75
 

Summer 2009 Hours
for New Clients: 10am - 3pm
for Returning clients: 10am - 6pm

Hands On Touch
Located in San Francisco  -  Hayes Valley
 

 

 

Referrals
 

Not in San Francisco and seeking a Massage?
Check out:  MassageM4M

I advertise on that website offering Male Massage
click on link to see my ad
 

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Returning clients

R U a 'Regular' *  ?

For me this means you had three or more sessions in the last calendar year

This latest offer is good for only one per customer per calendar year.
one free session
(maximum 1 hour)
You can use this for yourself or give it to someone else

As a regular client you also qualify for the specially priced quick session

     * Note:
      - I must be able to verify previous sessions 
      - Other special (barter/discount) arrangements welcomed
     

Quickie
30 - 45 Minute Massage =  $30

This is a 'special feature' bodywork, lasting less than 45 minutes. As a result of this shortened time it is limited in what can be accomplished. Keep in mind that time is very limited and I want to insure a relaxing experience.

This massage was originally designed by a regular client who only had a lunch hour to drop by for a massage. He wanted a quickie session so that he could enjoy it all and still have time to eat lunch, shower and get back to work. 

Shower with fresh towels is available when you arrive as well as to get you are ready to go back to leave.

 

Over 55 ?   *

I love the touch of your years and the response of your glory. 

My aim was that the older you were the less expensive the session.  I am still working out the details.

     for men 55-65:  Take $10  off these sessions already on sale:
              
60 min     $ 50
               90 min     $ 65

   for men 65 and over:  Take $15  off these sessions already on sale:
             
 60 min      $ 45
               90 min      $ 60

You must mention the web as the discounts are not offered to everyone

   * Note:
 
    - Please have proof of age

      - Please mention discounts when booking your appointment

 

   

 

HONORED TEACHERS


pardons this section still under construction

 

Chester Mainard
passed on 3/13/07

his webpage

One of the original teachers of Body Electric School of massage, Chester was best known as the "Avatar of Ass."  He originated the techniques I practice in my sessions.  His work directly influenced me as I created my "Butto Consciousness" techniques with his teachings in mind.  Google "Rosebud Massage" or "Exploring the Land Down Under" for examples of his DVD instruction tapes.

Chester aka Dragonfly was my friend for many years before I even trained with Body Electric.

 Chester left this world on March 13, 2007 however Chester never leaves my side as I prepare another clients for the 'journey down under.'    More later ....

 

MANTAK CHIA

Mantak Chia (Healing Tao) made me aware of the Tantra's sexual side, as well as it's modern day same-sex interpretation. 

In a series of workshops Mantak Chia connected the non-sexual breathing/chanting work and the Middle Pillar meditations with his system called the Microcosmic Orbit which resulted in a more dynamic form of the Tantra I utilize today.  His system however had the student originate the energy not at the anus as I had been doing, but from the solar plexus.  It then circulated down to the genitals, up the back, and down the body, back to the solar plexus.  There will be more discussion of this in the future Tantra lessons such as those in my private teaching of Sex Magik. 

"Magik" is deliberately spelt this way to separate it from usual stage magic shows using smoke & mirror tricks.  Tantric Sex is magik in its purest from.

The Tantric Master Chia's system dynamically stirred energy up from the base of the spine (at the Hui Yin, located just under the testicles) and sends the energy through the center of the body awakening ancient sensual and erotic forces that once unleashed provide tremendous energy and sexual power.

Most of the work I currently share with clients utilizes sections of this power system.

However, at the time I was working with Mantak Chia, (in the 1980's), his philosophies became contrary to mine.  He was of the mistaken belief that only through Male/Female sex could one practice the Tantra (he is of traditional Thai/Chinese beliefs).  When I admitted I was gay, it ended my training with him as he believed that gay men could not do this type of work - his belief was the Tantric could potentially destroy a person's energy if they only worked with their own sex.

I always believed he was entitled to his opinion no matter how wrong it was. I decided to continue with the best of his teachings blending it with other techniques I found along the way.

Time changes many things and so I repeat a story I heard from a Healing Tao teacher: 

A Grand Master Healing Tao session was called gathering all teachers together. The Master Chia was there to honor his established teachers.  Several of them publicly came out as gay.  Mantak Chia was shocked as he learned not only did these gay men fully utilized the techniques with only men as their partners, but actually were more vital and energized with homosex.  These men also introduced new techniques even his original teacher didn't know.  So I guess an old teacher can learn new tricks! 

In my personal opinion ALL of Mantak Chia's books are treasured gems.   While I agree that some of his writings are a bit 'hard' to understand, there are many magnificent teachings of the Tantra presented.  Remember just as gender is really not an important aspect so much as the connection made when love-making begins, so too the writings of Mantak Chia (while in his early writings were) homophobic are not so much an issue as is the teachings he so generously made available to his students.

JOE KRAMER    

I progressed as far as I could go until I was introduced to the works of Joe Kramer and the Body Electric School. There I learned of additional male Tantra exercises, how to do both erotic and non-erotic bodywork/massage, breathing patterns and the ability of gay men to work fully with the Tantra.

Dr Kramer (he got his PhD for his Thesis on the Erotic) has been one of my mentors as I admired his business etiquette.  He created BODY ELECTRIC school of Massage & Rebirthing to share these techniques to the world.  He learned the quickies that would take 40 men over 2 days time to become multi-orgasmic. 

He once told me it was his pleasure to be able to teach men in this fashion...until the VHS/DVD boom and he found that instead of teaching 40 men at a time, he could reach thousands of men,

Be sure to check him out as he now is into streaming videos as well as getting your college degree in the Erotic. 

 

 

 

 

The Breath connects us all

"Our breath is constantly rising and falling, ebbing and flowing, entering and leaving our bodies. Full body breathing is an extraordinary symphony of both powerful and subtle movements that massage our internal organs, oscillate our joints, and alternately tone and release all the muscles in the body.  It is a full participation with life.

"The fundamental nature of the breath is that, like life, it is constantly changing.  The breath oscillates.  It rocks us to and fro, fills and empties us, expands and condenses. One of the easiest ways to begin to perceive this natural flow of the breath is to learn to recognize the basic movements in the body that are present during breathing. Movement tells you where the breath is moving...and where it is not. Recognizing these movements is the first step in getting to know your breath."  from The Breathing Book  by  Donna Farhi  

 

Locks that Unlock

There are many different types of 'lock' in the energy systems in the Hands On Touch sessions. 

Locking means to safely contain the energy; to harness its full potential. In this fast-paced world many want the quick and easy path to fuller pleasures.  Suggesting 'control' and 'safely contain' are thought of as too many rules with outdated restrictions. 

Think of it this way -
     You bought a lamp.  You unpacked the lamp screwed in a light bulb and turned it on.  Nothing happened until you realized that one rule was you needed to plug in the cord to a (working) light socket.  If all goes well, you will do this and the light will go on.  This is the path I want to achieve with you  - success, once everything is properly set in place.

Without 'safety' locks the scene might be this -
     You bought a lamp.  You didnt bother unpacking it.  You cut a hole to inset the  light bulb and screwed it in, and plugged in the cord to a light socket.  Since the lamp wasnt fully unpacked you never noticed that the power cord wasnt connected to the lamp.  The cord must have been sliced when you tried to open the box. If all goes well there will be a loud noise, a bit of smoke and your fuses will blow out.  If it doesnt go well...

Safety Energy Lock #3
   from "Touch of Healing" by Alice Burmeister
I am of the Practioner level with a form of Japanese acupressure called Jin Shin Jyutsu.  It's philosophy is about self-healing with the use of hands placed on the body.  Its a very gentle, subtle and powerful healing modality.  If I see a discordant energy pattern in my client, I often use one of their "flows."  I always inform the client as the locks used will often quicken the energy release.  Often in unexpected ways. Often will long lasting results. Here is an example of one of the Safety Locks. This one boosts the Immune System as it release a natural antibiotic.  It also aids in breathing.  It treats colds and sore throats. 

"The acupressure point is located on your upper back, by the inside and upper corners of the shoulder blade. to the left and right side of the spine.  This lock functions like a 'door' swinging forth to unload tension then swinging back to receive purified energy. "

1. Place your left hand on your right shoulder.   The side of your thumb resting at the base of the neck.  The fingers naturally curl to the location and cling as you rest your elbow on your chest.

2. Place your right hand on your left shoulder.   The side of your thumb resting at the base of the neck.  The fingers naturally curl to the location and cling as you rest your elbow on your chest.

3. Hold there for a few minutes.  See how it feels.  If possible hold for up to 15 minutes at a time.   As often as it feels good. 

 

Edge of Completion

Edging is that sensation you get when you masturbate without releasing.  It lets the the tension build. It gives back control of the orgasm to those men who want to wield fierce orgasms.

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Butt Consciousness

Butt Consciousness was created so that people with little or no prior anal massage would enjoy the bodywork.

I blended a full body massage with some anal play, giving you less or more anal pleasure depending on you reaction and if you are like to experiment with full intensity - depending on prior experience, I might add toys, lube, fingers, vibrators and perhaps even more to further enhance the awareness of the power & pleasure of the prostate. 

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Masturbation can be good
for the over-50s 
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-wellbeing/health-news/masturbation-can-be-good-for-the-over50s-1516792.html

Removal of toxins built up over a lifetime reduces the risk of prostate cancer

By Jeremy Laurance, Health Editor
Tuesday, 27 January 2009

Masturbation may be good for you – or bad, depending on your age. The solitary sexual activity that is widely practiced but little discussed, is linked with an increased risk of prostate cancer when practiced frequently by young men in their twenties and thirties, doctors say.

But by the time men reach their fifties, it may protect against the disease because it helps remove toxins that have built up over a lifetime.

Prostate cancer is known to be driven by the male hormone testosterone, and men with high levels of testosterone tend to have a higher sex drive and a higher risk of the cancer.

But most research has examined older men because prostate cancer is unusual under 50. Researchers at the University of Nottingham studied the link between sexual activity in younger men and the disease to see if it affected their long-term risk. More than 400 men with prostate cancer diagnosed before the age of 60 were questioned about their sexual habits over the preceding decades and the results compared with 400 controls.

The findings showed that those who had been most sexually active in their twenties – having sexual intercourse or masturbating more than 20 times a month – were more likely to have the cancer. Frequent masturbation, but not sexual intercourse, in the twenties and thirties was significantly linked with the later development of prostate cancer.

In their 50s men who were most sexually active (more than 10 times a month for sexual intercourse and masturbation combined) enjoyed a small protective effect. The effect was greater when masturbation was assessed on its own.

Polyxeni Dimitripolou, who led the study published in the British Journal of Urology International, said: "It seems as if keeping up a certain level of sexual activity through the decades is better than having a high level early [in the 20s and 30s] and then nothing."

"One theory is that during the early years the prostate gland is more susceptible to hormonal changes and is still developing. As men age and accumulate toxins from the diet or through their lungs , sexual activity may help release them. Studies have found toxins in the semen and the fluid produced in the prostate. As you age it is more important to flush them out."

However, she admitted that there was no good explanation of why masturbation should have a greater impact on prostate cancer, either by increasing or reducing the risk, than sexual intercourse.

"For our sample there was no association with intercourse – all the effect was coming from masturbation. But it may have to do with our group of men. With a different group there could be different findings."

She added: "What makes our study stand out from previous research is that we focused on a younger age group than normal and included both intercourse and masturbation at various stages in people's lives."

"A possible explanation for the protective effect that men in their fifties appear to receive from overall sexual activity, and particularly masturbation, is that the release of accumulated toxins during sexual activity reduces the risk of developing cancer in the prostate area. This theory has, however, not been firmly established and further

 

 

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